Comments on: ALTHOUGH I STILL LOVE BLACK MEN???

By: CC

CC — Sat, 09 May 2009 22:59:44 +0000

I find it somewhat funny and simultaneously sad to see articles like this that hold much truth and weight and then have a negative comment by whom else….da.. da..da—dahh…A BLACK MAN!!! Since when did it become the (youthful black) social norm for black men to exploit and degrade black women so terribly that other races go from hate to feeling sorry for us. When are these men going to take responsibility? I am an educated black woman who came from a two-parent home and have dated black men for many years (most of which turned out negatively. I am financially successful, am not married and have no children. recently I met a Latin man whom I’ve noticed in less than a month treats me better than ANY black man I’ve ever been with and am hooked. I still love black men but personally will never date one again. Tragically, these particular black men aren’t alone (many black women are at fault as well. Someone once told me that unlike a lot a lot of black women, I know my worth and don’t seek it from a man. A blessing and a curse I guess. At that moment, I decided it wasn’t so bad to date outside me race. I’m happy now with my Puerto Rican and will likely NEVER go back to black.

By: Lesli

Lesli — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 23:01:42 +0000

What is pathetic is a black woman’s attempts to get a brother to love her when clearly he is not capable, willing, nor able to give the love that she so desperately wants. What’s sad is that he is so aware of a woman’s desire to be with him and a black man with exploit those emotions to this benefit. I have ran across too many brothers with this attitude and it sickens me to the point that I can’t deal with it anymore. This entitlement atttitude that black men display. While you are down on your luck, incarcerated, in school whatever….black women are EXPECTED to take care of their man and hold him up. But as soon as you all get on your feet you are too good to date us.

Forget the economy. What about the devalue of the black woman.

By: Mike

Mike — Thu, 20 Dec 2007 22:32:10 +0000

That was just pathetic.
Whats even more sorry is there is an army of black women running around the internet with that attitude.
You take away the skin color and your swear you were listening to some white supremist propaganda.

We have become the boogie man all of a sudden.

Black men giving woman HIV?

And were do you suppose these men are getting it from?

That is a great post!