Men II Boys

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How does three generations of fatherlessness manifest itself in the hearts of young African-American Men? Watch the trailer and bear witness to the trauma. The Best-Selling Independent African American Documentary of 2009 Your Donation is appreciated. Thank You!	82.3* is the percentage of African American children born since 1990 guaranteed not to live in the same home as their biological fathers. Between birth and age 16, a generation of African American youth, specifically boys, has not had access to positive male role models. Additionally, the concept of a residential father is often too far removed from these children’s reality. Many of us know the statistics; too many of us have attempted to affect the dilemmas facing young boys individually. A continuous struggle that at times seems insurmountable. From the mainstream media to the corner barbershop, most conversations can properly identify the behavioral, social, economic, physical, psychological and spiritual challenges that define the modern era boy of color. We all know the data and research around the issues; the time has come to ask, “What are we willing to do?” When will we start to leverage our collective efforts to address the underlying pathology around this crisis? What will we do to curtail the desperate plight of our young boys? When will our dialogue transcend into real life solutions? Project COURAGE Community, Organizing, Uniting, Rallying, and Galvanizing Events Project COURAGE utilizes a film and lecture series to mobilize men, women, youth, families neighborhoods and communities around one singular issue; connecting positive male role models with young boys of color. iYAGO Entertainment Group’s 44-minute documentary film, Men II Boys, is an organizing tool to encourage community-based, faith-based and civil-servant-based interaction and results. The Men II Boys Film & Lecture Tour is designed to promote advocacy efforts and provide solutions related to the challenges faced by young boys of color. Project COURAGE features a community conversation as a grassroots-organizing tool that focuses local and national stakeholders’ efforts and holds accountable their investment in their communities. Project COURAGE begins the process of restoring the time-honored tradition of Man to Young Man life-building and life-saving skills. We NEED Your Support. Your Donation to Men To Boys, Inc., regardless of the amount, will support our efforts to continue to make a positive impact on communities around this country. Whether $1 or $1000 your Tax-Deductible contribution will make the difference in a young boy’s life. To learn more and more information on hosting an event in your community visit:
Men to Boys, Inc. (MTB) is a national non-profit organization with the mission of reconnecting fathers to sons and mentors to mentees. To accomplish its mission, MTB uses art and media as a social advocacy tool to change public perception of African American males and engages communities as advocates and men as positive roles models. MTB’s primary initiative is its national community engagement campaign, Project COURAGE. *A Demographic Analysis of the Family Structure:Experiences of Children in the United States. David M. Blau. August 2007. IZA (The Institute for the Study of Labor: Bonn)

One Night Only, Returning by Popular Demand

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iYAGO Entertainment Group Presents the MEN II BOYS Film & Lecture Tour.

Free Community Wide screening comes to Prince Georges County, Maryland. All Stakeholders who are invested in working with boys and young men are encouraged to attend!

The Community Organizing Event of 2009 is coming to a city near you soon! Please visit www.MenToBoys.com for more details about these and other screenings nationwide.These are FREE EVENTS, for large groups or seat reservations please contact MenToBoys@gmail.com.

Free Community Event

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iYAGO Entertainment Group Presents the MEN II BOYS Film & Lecture Tour.

The Community Organizing Event of 2009 is coming to a city near you soon! Please visit www.MenToBoys.com for more details about these and other screenings nationwide.These are FREE EVENTS, for large groups or seat reservations please contact MenToBoys@gmail.com.

Free Community Event

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Please visit www.MenToBoys.com for more details about this and other screenings nationwide.

iYAGO Entertainment Group Presents the MEN II BOYS Film & Lecture Tour.

The Community Organizing Event of 2009 comes to Washington DC, Monday, September 21st at the historic Lincoln Theatre, 1215 U Street NW, Washington, DC, from 7:00pm to 10:00pm.

This a FREE EVENT, for large groups or seat reservations please contact MenToBoys@gmail.com.

Tonight at 11:00pm (if I can stay awake)

Dispelling Black Myths!

It is no secret that African Americans have an image problem. It is also no secret that the media misrepresents African Americans. What is ostensibly a secret is that many of the worst (and false) things being said about Black people are actually being perpetuated by Black people. Are there more Black men in prison than college? Are most Black men in prison? Are Black women being infected with HIV by secret gay Black men? Let’s talk…

Joining Darryl In Studio is This Week’s Guest:

Film maker Janks Morton, who in his film, “What Black Men Think,” presents a searing examination of the role that myths, stereotypes and misperceptions have played in the decimation of modern era Black relationships, and how the symbiotic relationship between Government, the Media and Special Interests perpetuates misinformation to further marginalize the role of Black Men in society.

Free Community Event

SAVE THE DATE

iYAGO Entertainment Group Presents the MEN II BOYS Film & Lecture Tour. The Community Organizing Event of 2009 comes to Washington DC, Monday, September 21st at the historic Lincoln Theatre, 1215 U Street NW, Washington, DC, from 7:00pm to 10:00pm. This a FREE EVENT, for large groups or seat reservations please contact MenToBoys@gmail.com.

why I have been so quiet?

if I open my mouth, i might scream?

can i burn a copy of your dvd?

(or, how the “I got the hook-up mentality” is killing black independent filmmakers)

So I’ve finally decided to set aside an evening to blog. It’s not that I don’t enjoy expressing myself through this venue; it’s just this one little obstacle I have to get over every time I sit down to hunt and peck at the keyboard (yep, never took a typing class), I HATE WRITING! No exceptions, no quorums,lots of complaints, but at this stage in life, I’ve come to accept it as  just one of those things.  Over the past couple of years my posts have devolved from social, artistic and political commentary, to a cut copy and paste of interesting articles followed by some pretty weak one lined zingers. And good lord help me since I’ve discovered re-tweeting on twitter, my seldom written and overreaching diatribes have been pretty much non-existent.  Not to say I haven’t been busy shooting off at the mouth in pretty much any forum that would have me, but enough of the rambling and on to the story…

So this past weekend I was having a conversation with a dear friend of mine some of you may know. Lamar Tyler of BlackandMarriedwithKids.com is also this up and coming filmmaker and between his website and the film, is becoming a force to be reckoned with. (I’m going to have to really keep my eye on him, his movie “Happily Ever After just passed my film on AMAZON.com, my competitive streak is kicking in and I will win!) Well Saturday morning, early in the conversation, he proudly announced on the phone “Man, we just passed 10,000 fans on our Facebook fan page today!” Point for celebration correct? Maybe.  In a very cynical tone my follow-up question to this moment of reserved jubilee  was “so how’s the DVD sales going?’. After a downturn of his emotions and a slight pause, Lamar said “…..well” at this juncture I interjected and saved him having to express his frustrations and  finished his sentence with “yeah, you know how we do…”And therein lies the premise of this blog and the ongoing saga of the trials and tribulations of independent film-making.

The back story and underlying support for this blazing generalization of “you know how we do” are two fold, and while I have a lifetime of experience and perceptions to assert this negative stereotype, I will reference (briefly)citing two recent occurrences to make my point.

After a stirring and heart felt presentation at a very large mega church here in Prince George’s county, a fine and upstanding member of highly visible law enforcement division, walks up to me with the following statement. “Brother (oh crap, did I pay those 4 parking tickets), I just wanted to say your documentary and presentation is one of the most important messages I have ever seen, and the DVD would be a valuable resource for our young men we work with (whew…) Would you mind if I burned a couple of copies for some of my team members so they can use them at their respective facilities? Hopefully you can here the sound of tires screeching in my head, or that scratching noise the old record needles use to make.  And while the proper english, and professional demeanor of this gentleman was impressive, the logic seemed to escape me. Fortunately I no longer swear in public because in my mind something along the lines of “motherfather, don’t yawl arrest people for that stuff ?” (take full liberty in inserting your curse word of preference anywhere in the previous sentence), However, considering we were in church and he was carrying a firearm, I simply stated “c’mon on brother, I ain’t got Sony pictures behind me, it’s just me, so can you….And you all can see the look of oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah coming across his face as to have an epiphany and close the conversation with “oh dag, my bad”.

Part two of the drama unfolds  this past weekend at, of course, another church on Saturday morning. Another heart felt, passionate (I had to pause for about 14 seconds because I almost broke out in tears during the section I do on forgiveness) and inspiring message to about 100 members after one of the best home-cooked sausage eggs and home fry deals I’ve had since I’ve been on tour.  Now I’m not going to down the path of purchasing product after a free meal, a free screening, and a free sermon. That’s an entire blog entry unto itself but still in the same vein of this stream of thought. During the Q&A segment, a brother stands up (in front of everyone) and says, “Brother, I love what you have put together here. I got this (so and so)  hook up in Chicago, with these brothers that are doing (such and such), and can I burn a copy of this to send to them to help you out? I stop, I pause, I look at the audience, they look at me, I grin and with this tilted head deer stuck in the headlights look, I say “are you kidding me?”. Again, good fortune prevailed, the audience was amused, and the gentleman made sure to come after the program and apologize profusely about his err, and of course I advised him “it’s cool, you know how we do…”

So back to my conversation with Lamar. Several days prior I realized that between all the YouTube, MySpace, FaceBook, and other web outlets, I have over 500,000 views of my videos, and God only knows how many hits to the BlackPlanet, Washington Post, CNN and all that other stuff out there. “Man if I could just get 10% of these to 10,000 fans to buy the DVD I would be straight!” stresses Lamar. “Man, If I just had one dollar from just the views on the PSA it would be over” I explained.  “but you know cuz, it’s just the way it is. you know how we do…”” I continued. Black people, you gotta love ‘em, but we missed the memo that seems to be circulating amongst alot of other groups throughout this country. I hate to play the whole slavery card, and the subsequent socialization process of making something out of nothing, however on the topic of the intrinsic value of supportive commercewe seem to miss connecting all the dots. “I’ve been thinking about writing a blog about this for a very long time but it’s such a touchy subject and a very fine line to walk, I think it could tick more people off than inspire” was how I finished the conversation with Lamar.

So at this juncture I’ll do what it is I always do, provide a couple of case studies for your amusment. Exhibit A.  that dog gone Jeff Foxworthy (or the Caucasian version of the chittlin circuit). This dude basically drops these series of stand up comdeianic self deprecating, culture denigrating narratives, that are so uniquely, well, redneck, I have difficulty following the humor most times.  It took me two whole days to catch this joke about matching salad bowls and cool whip containers, but I digress. My point, self-described rednecks ate that stuff up, and the intrinsic value of supportive commercebegan to kick in. In other words, they began to support their own through purchases, word of mouth and othe mechanisms. The other examples I would defer to would be Van Halen, Master P, and MC Hammer, but want to use them as a point of differentiation because they are musical entertainment (one of the few durable goods you’re allowed to consume, entirely, prior to purchase).  Point being, that these acts probably were supported by as little as 20,000 followers at the time of their “big record deals” and commanded high percentages and millions at the table.

I’ll closed out with my other, not so favorite Tyler (Perry), and how long he was on the scene as a playwright in the church circuit before he got any type of nod from Lionsgate. Both Lamar and I use a documentary style format to advance socio-political-spiritual ideologues, i.e. restoration of black families, or positive images of healthy black marriages, and while it may not be as dramatic as say, oh, a grown man in a dress going to another family reunion, with the latest gospel track kicking at the climax, our works are actually capturing the heart, mind and souls of what is happening today in our community, and hopefully, about a 100 years from now, these films can truly be looked upon as documenting what really was the deal, from our own lens.

So what’s all the fuss about? What’s to stop us from continuing on our respective paths? Let me give you insight to the world many of independent filmmakers live. Tim Alexander, Eric McKay, Andrea Wiley, and a whole slew of up and comings are doing some things absolutely groundbreaking, totally unheard of, and by Hollywood’s standards, a little bit crazy. What we do is pay for our own stuff. No backers, no financing, no grants, no foundations, just us. I think the challenge is making the general public understand what goes on behind the scenes to take on these efforts. The blood,the sweat and the tears I have seen most of us go through in order to deliver a quality product to market. I’ve seen 2^nd mortgages, foreclosures, pawning of cameras, bankruptcies, and a slew of financial worries, to make most thankful for their 9 to 5’s. Hell I’ve even had to start plucking more gray hairs monthly because of these endeavors. And please let us NOT begin the narrative of early morning chest pains that jump up until that first cup of coffee.

My point, you may ask again? You gotta love my people to do what we do. We all have always heard the clarion call of support our own. From the Black Buying Boycott day (still ticked at whoever came up with that idea, zero units sold for 2 days on AMAZON) to the Black Shopping Network, to the “I’m down for supporting Black products, Brother (fist raised) ” I meet no matter what city I’m in. The challenge is that more often than not, our attitudes just don’t seem to translate into actions when it comes to specific independent efforts outside of music. I know probably one of the greatest spoken word poets ever in Taalam Acey, if talent equated to compensation for your efforts, this man would make Donald Trump look poor. Gary Johnson, of BlackMenInAmerica.com and author of book “25 things you need to know in life” an inspiring book, should be part of your daily read for like a year. And finally Lamar Tyler with his 10,000 fans on FaceBook. What do we all have in common? All struggling to keep the electricity on, thinking about disconnecting the phone lines because of that HELOC loan that slipped behind, or dang, “If I could just manage to get 20 of the 100 people at this event to understand if they loved this so much, and you want to see more of it, you kind of have to buy something to support it”.

I know this is touchy with us, and I KNOW HOW WE DO, with that being said, I wanted to give anyone out their some direction around this whole deal; in the jerry McGuire diatribe of “help me, help you”. This is a tough line to walk, I don’t want to instill guilt to manipulate. I don’t want to appear to be grupmy and definitely don’t want to seem like we’re begging. With that being said, here’s a stab at a specific course of action that will ensure that this artform doesn’t turrn into, well, MC HAMMER, here today, gone tomorrow, and back in 20 years.

In bullet points, and summary;

1. While you may see us on CNN, CSPAN or any MSM outlet, I have never met an independent (non-major studio associated) artist who is just out right looted
2. Most of us out here are self-financed in debt up to our necks, and struggling to continue to advance this medium.
3. We love what we do, and if everything was right with the world we would do it for free.
4. We all are probably as guilty as the next guy of the “hook a brother up mentality”, by lifting free cable, downloading from Napster, or coping a bootleg at the barbershop. (now I’m feeling guilty ~ sorry all of you 80’s stars like D-Train)
5. I know right is right and wrong is wrong, and this instance, we need a “do the right thing mentality”. To sustain the lifeline of an emerging and necessary outlet, help us break the stranglehold that studios, networks and MSM have about the necks of the black community, this includes you Blacks Embarrassing Themselves.
6. Please support your local independent filmmakers by more than kind words on a twitter entry. While we love and appreciate the encouragement, really hook a brother up, BUY the dag gone movie. And if you’re feeling super generous, send a dollar! Really it’s a simple best bit of encouragement we can get.
7. And instead of burning a copy for your boys, please insists that your friends get their own.
8. And if you really want to help us out, send out one of those emails that says “if you don’t forward this to all of your email friends, you’ll have seven years bad luck, and your dog is going to get measles.

Thanks, we love you, and truly appreciate the hook-up.

Jynx

New Online Series Coming This Fall!

RECONCILIATION

From the Producer of the award winning Documentary “What Black Men Think” and “Men II Boys” comes the next installment in the ground breaking series. “Reconciliation” will be a series of free online webisodes demonstrating the ability of two parents to finally make the correct sacrifices for the benefit of their children in order to bring closure, redemption, and reclamation to a generation, scourged by the division in the Modern Era Black Family.

Debbie Rowe to attend custody hearing about Jackson children: report

Debbie Rowe, the ex-wife of Michael Jackson and biological mother to two of his children, has been keeping relatively quiet since the superstar’s death on June 25.

However, Rowe’s changing her tune now that a hearing to decide whether she gets temporary guardianship of the children has been scheduled for July 20 at the Los Angeles Superior Court, People.com reports.

“[Debbie] says that she will definitely be at the custody hearing,” says Marc Schaffel, Jackson’s former business partner and Rowe’s close friend.

Rowe’s kids – Prince Michael, 12, and Paris, 11 – have been living in Encino, Calif. with their grandmother Katherine Jackson, who was named guardian in Jackson’s will last week, after the pop star’s death.

The singer’s third child, Blanket (Prince Michael II), 7, is the son of an unidentified surrogate. Katherine Jackson is petitioning to keep custody of Jackson’s children.

According to officials, neither woman is required to appear in court.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/michael_jackson/2009/07/11/2009-07-11_debbie_rowe_to_attend_.html#ixzz0L5zvfXNm&C